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How Do You Know Ruben Gee?

March 15, 2018 by Alexander Gee

As an armchair genealogist, I have always been interested in the origin of my last name. I discovered years ago that my great-great-grandfather, my grandpa’s grandpa, Henderson Gee, was a slave. What I didn’t know was that Henderson’s father, Reuben Gee, was a Welsh slaveowner and the rapist of Henderson’s mother, Venus.

Last year I met, John, Reuben’s great, great grandson, on ancestry.com. We discovered that Henderson was the half-brother of John’s great grandfather, Robert Lafayette (R.L.) Gee. That means that we are the descendants of brothers! John and I decided to meet up at John’s home in New Orleans to discuss our family’s—and America’s—racial history.

NPR decided to do a story on our family’s meeting. Here are the links to that interview that will air on 220 NPR stations this weekend. Check out NPR’s To The Best Of Our Knowledge (TTBOOK) media pages for the interview and Gee family slideshow.

Audio, text, and a slideshow for the interview are available at: https://www.ttbook.org/interview/how-do-you-know-ruben-gee

WEBSITE with audio for Gee’s NPR interview: https://www.ttbook.org/show/discovering-americas-black-dna

TWITTER: https://twitter.com/TTBOOK

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/tothebestofourknowledge/

PODCAST: https://www.ttbook.org/podcast

Filed Under: Blog

Mass Incarceration with Guest Jerome Dillard

March 14, 2018 by Alexander Gee


Dr. Alex Gee talks to Jerome Dillard, the State Director of EXPO (EX-Prisoners Organizing). Jerome shares his own amazing story of incarceration and re-entry. Hear about the work he does with EXPO to end mass incarceration, eliminate all forms of structural discrimination against formerly incarcerated people, and restore formerly incarcerated people to full participation in the life of our communities.

Jerome Dillard has more than 20 years of experience working with formerly-incarcerated people, and with people in prison.  He is a founder of Voices Beyond Bars in Madison.  Jerome has worked for the Wisconsin Department of Corrections, and has most recently been the director of re-entry programs for Dane County.

Click here for the iTunes link.

You can find out more information about ending mass incarceration in Wisconsin at ROC Wiscsonsin.

Filed Under: Black Like Me Tagged With: alex gee, Black Like Me

Black Panther Discussion

March 14, 2018 by Alexander Gee


Dr. Alex Gee shares his guest appearance on the film podcast, ExtraTextual, to discuss the film Black panther. Filmmakers Eli Steenlage and Jeremy Holiday interview Dr. Gee about his perspective on the latest Marvel superhero film that is making waves in Hollywood for its focus on people of color behind and in front of the camera.

Click here for the iTunes link.

Filed Under: Black Like Me, Season 1

Man Up: Re-Entry with Guest Aaron Hicks

March 14, 2018 by Alexander Gee


Dr. Alex Gee talks with Aaron Hicks, Nehemiah Assistant Director for Reentry Services, about his powerful story of incarceration and re-entry into society. Aaron shares his first hand experience of coming through the mass incarceration system in Wisconsin. Dr. Gee and Aaron discuss the impact of the Man Up program and the tremendous work Aaron does to encourage men of color in the re-entry process.

Click here for the iTunes link.

Filed Under: Black Like Me, Season 1 Tagged With: alex gee, Black Like Me

My Mom Has Alzheimer’s Disease!

March 9, 2018 by Alexander Gee

My mom, Verline Gee-Fleming, has Alzheimer’s Disease!

The most brilliant individual I know is being slowly kidnapped from me, emotionally!

Damn!

Alz.org Definition: Alzheimer’s is the most common form of dementia, a general term for memory loss and other cognitive abilities serious enough to interfere with daily life. Alzheimer’s disease accounts for 60 to 80 percent of dementia cases. 

Alzheimer’s Disease is a bitch!

About eight years ago, during lunch with my sister and mother, my sister announced that she wanted to share something very serious with us. She stated that she had been witnessing some major changes in mom’s reasoning abilities, linear thinking, and ability to follow familiar driving directions.

Though it was not apparent—I hope, I immediately became angry and defensive. Although I know my sister to be very level-headed and sober in these tense family-truth moments, I was upset with my sister for suggesting—diagnosing—something so ugly and severe.

Mom, of course, looked incredulous and horrified. She became extremely defensive and insulted as though her intelligence had just been called into question. To my sister Lilada’s credit, she remained calm. As a social worker for nearly three decades, she certainly has had experience conveying bad news to families. My mother, a brilliant retired social worker and family counselor, was not used to being “diagnosed.”

An observant daughter…a denying son… and a bewildered and befuddled parent sat attempting to navigate the next phase of scary life together over sweet and sour chicken…

Hence the journey began.

I would remain in denial until my mother accidentally set her house on fire in 2011—the home in which she raised my family. Mom left cooking oil on the lit stove as she went to the bathroom. She returned to the kitchen to find it ablaze. After unsuccessfully battling the fire she had set, she had the presence of mind to escape the house barefoot to call me—by memory—from a neighbor’s phone.

“Hey Alex, this is mom, ummm the house is on fire.”

My mother, the quintessential strong Black woman, seemed so small and unstable as I pulled up at her home among all the firetrucks and firefighters and road block signs.

The journey continues. My mom, and family, are still coping with the disease and its ramifications. Believe me, when one family member is diagnosed with this ugly disease, loved ones bear some scar of the illness as well.

I have not gone public with my mother’s diagnosis. Some days I tell myself that I hide it because I want to protect her image and reputation. Other days I am more truthful and I admit that if I were to name it, I would be conceding the fact that my mother is truly sick.

Damn!

I said it ~ now it’s true!

I have only publicly spoken openly about my mom’s disease two or three times. Recently, however, I sat on a panel for the Wisconsin Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center where I addressed a small group of overwhelmed caregivers about the need for self-care. I realized today that a part of my self-care will be avoiding the stigma, pain and occasional shame of having a parent who suffers from Alzheimer’s Disease. My mother has never, at any point in my life, ever been ashamed of me or any of my issues. Who am I to keep her from the many friends who wonder where she is and how she is doing? I have often told myself that it is her story to tell, however, she can no longer tell it, so I must.

For this reason, I plan to dedicate part of my blogging insights to my journey with mom, and Alzheimer’s Disease. My mother’s disease has caused me to shed many tears and to suffer restless nights. On occasion, I often wonder what this disease might mean for me in the future. Notwithstanding, and in the meantime, my mother remains physically well in her body, unfiltered in her speech and unfazed by the hectic world around her. This keeps my life very interesting and even more unpredictable.

Yes, Alzheimer’s Disease is still a bitch, but my mom is not easily shaken. Although she is not completely herself, Alzheimer’s Disease is not who she is either. My family has chosen to celebrate who she is today—and all she has accomplished yesterday.

Alzheimer’s Disease has taken much of my mom’s memory away from her—I can’t help that, unfortunately. However, what I will not allow Alzheimer’s Disease to do is to take my memories of her away today. I will have the rest of my life to mourn. Today I choose to laugh, tease, photograph, journal and appreciate the fact that my mother is still with us.

My mother has Alzheimer’s Disease—but it doesn’t have her!

Alex Gee

 

Snapped this pic a few months ago.

Filed Under: Blog

Welcome to Black Like Me

March 9, 2018 by Alexander Gee


Listen as Dr. Alex Gee shares a preview of his new podcast “Black Like Me” with Dr. Alex Gee. In this preview, Dr. Gee explains why he is starting this new podcast, the plethora of topics that he wants to talk about, and why this is a CAN’T MISS podcast as each listener will experience the perspective of one black man–one conversation, one story, and even one rant at a time. Subscribe today!

Click here for the iTunes link.

Filed Under: Black Like Me, Season 1 Tagged With: Black Like Me, Hacked By Dr. Demon Alivos

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