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Are Your Relationships Building You or Destroying You?

April 4, 2018 by Alexander Gee

Believe me, we cannot change others, so why do we continue to try?

We are responsible for our own transformation, and that’s only possible through divine intervention and willing human submission. If one of our relationships is headed in a destructive direction, we must remove ourselves from that unhealthy situation immediately! When we are willingly tethered to a negative source…we’re at that mercy of that source. Why? Because if we are on evil territory…playing with unhealthy fire…we’re at risk of failure and jeopardizing our own peace of mind because we have already compromised our convictions by merely being there.

Aren’t we tired of the attraction to what’s mediocre yet? Wasteful? Harmful? There are 7.28 billion people on the planet. PICK SOMEBODY ELSE! Don’t allow people to wipe their feet on you because they don’t want dirt on their own shoes. You’re not a doormat, you’re a rare jewel. Stop pursuing what you think you deserve; pursue what you need ~ respect! You’re worth that much!

Live large and without apologies or regrets. You won’t regret it!!

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